We all hear about unconditional love, and I think most of us believe we are practicing it daily. Then, there are others of us who choose to keep score and have an eye for an eye mentality. I heard a lesson recently on unconditional love and what that really means. It seems to me that we refer to it as a status to achieve. After hearing the lesson, ...Read More

Yuk! Conflict. If you're anything like I am, you cringe at the thought of disharmony in a relationship, and even worse have distaste for working up the courage to deal with conflict. Dealing with the issue means it's just going to blow up in your face after all right? Wrong! As Rhonda Shasteen, my mentor, once told me, "We make things worse in the six inches between our ...Read More

My mentor, Rhonda Shasteen, taught me early on to be true to myself. I've probably spent every day since then trying to discover my true self. I think you continue to discover it a little bit every day for your entire life. I've learned it doesn't mean be selfish. It means listening to the inner voice guiding you and honoring that voice. Listening to your inner voice is ...Read More